Advice?

[NinRose]

Okay. here it comes.
On a party a couple of weeks ago, me and a guy kissed. but the fact is that he is engaged.. so I got a lot of trouble with his viancé, but the guy and me made it up and were friends again.. but today, I just like saw him and I began to shake and things like that.. So Naomi said; 'you have to talk to him' I thought; 'nah' .. so I gave him a look as; 'god I need to talk to you but I can't....' so me and Naomi stood there chatting by the trainstation and he comes walking with Michael there.. and Awi and Michelle came by so we stood chatting and Naomi said; go to him, go to him, if you don't do it you'll be to late..
So the moment he wanted to walk up the stairs to go the train I yelled through the hall; "Mo, I really need to talk to you.. don't care when, just soon and it's very important.." while I stood there shaking like I was sick.. he looked like; finally, she got the balls to say it.. and he said; 'that's okay dear, are you okay? then I said; 'No I'm not. Do you think I'm shaking because I feel fine?!' and then he gave me a huge hug.. but he had a train to catch.. so, when I'm going to talk to him, what do I have to say.. just tell him what my heart tells ? Cause sometimes I really suck in that kind of things and then I'm nervous and whatever..
So people.. what do you think? (and I know that it wasn't right that we kissed.. but it happened and we can't change it.. *and he started...*)

[jimmer45khb]

First off how old is this guy and how old are you?

Other then that it is never good to take some ones fiancé if he will cheat on her then he will cheat on you this is a true fact.

But if you must you need to tell him how you fell but you have to be sure about the way you fell about him first you need to find out why he kissed you and what lead him to do it after you find out what it was that lead him to kiss you then you will have a idea on what it is your felling for him and you go from there.

[CommanderCody88]

pfff....meisie tog...:P..but he was engaged..so how old is he? lol..and ur story sounds like u typed it being nervous as well :P...but as for the advice..there is no future for you and him...nothing more then friends..the fact is probably that u like him and want him to be ur boyfriend..but thats not gonna happen..u should get over it and find another one..there are enough boys out there :P and thats what you should tell him...lol...just that you like him but that there is no future for you and him, other than being friends...and dont kiss him again...that at least...and what was the situation u both were in when u kissed?

p.s. ik ga naar bed..laat nog maar horen hoe t afgelopen is :P

[Pineappledishwasher]

Talk to your brother! xD

[NinRose]

He is 23 and I am 15 okay.
And the fact is, I have now a potential boyfriend and I really want to be friends with Mo.. and so is his thought about it, but our friendship can't work if we don't solve it all ..?
and there is another thing..
his viancé never makes trouble when he kisses someone else.. and if we kiss she wanted to kill me.. but Syl (great friend of my) kissed with him to and she didn't got any trouble.. (but that was a time ago, and to, he was engaged then..)

[CommanderCody88]

Originally Posted by Pineappledishwasher

Talk to your brother! xD

u useless piece of pervert..XD...no good advice on this will come from you I think :P only for the guys XD

[NinRose]

Originally Posted by Pineappledishwasher

Talk to your brother! xD

Very funny. x'D

[Chrisuu]

Originally Posted by NinRose

Okay. here it comes.
On a party a couple of weeks ago, me and a guy kissed. but the fact is that he is engaged.. so I got a lot of trouble with his viancé, but the guy and me made it up and were friends again.. but today, I just like saw him and I began to shake and things like that.. So Naomi said; 'you have to talk to him' I thought; 'nah' .. so I gave him a look as; 'god I need to talk to you but I can't....' so me and Naomi stood there chatting by the trainstation and he comes walking with Michael there.. and Awi and Michelle came by so we stood chatting and Naomi said; go to him, go to him, if you don't do it you'll be to late..
So the moment he wanted to walk up the stairs to go the train I yelled through the hall; "Mo, I really need to talk to you.. don't care when, just soon and it's very important.." while I stood there shaking like I was sick.. he looked like; finally, she got the balls to say it.. and he said; 'that's okay dear, are you okay? then I said; 'No I'm not. Do you think I'm shaking because I feel fine?!' and then he gave me a huge hug.. but he had a train to catch.. so, when I'm going to talk to him, what do I have to say.. just tell him what my heart tells ? Cause sometimes I really suck in that kind of things and then I'm nervous and whatever..
So people.. what do you think? (and I know that it wasn't right that we kissed.. but it happened and we can't change it.. *and he started...*)

I think u should tell him how u feel but if he also likes his viance(dunno how u get that tited stripe above the e)

But i think u should tel him but also tel him not to cheat on his viance becaus stuf like that is very bad,
So if he has feeling fopr u and his viance he as to choose iots as simple as that


and i know how u feel for some bit
therer is this girl who first said shes says she like me as some kind of joke but..
now shes saying it quete frequent and its making me confused

EDIT: Pinaplle u USELESS Jandoedel

[NinRose]

Originally Posted by Chrisuu

I think u should tell him how u feel but if he also likes his viance(dunno how u get that tited stripe above the e)

But i think u should tel him but also tel him not to cheat on his viance becaus stuf like that is very bad,
So if he has feeling fopr u and his viance he as to choose iots as simple as that


and i know how u feel for some bit
therer is this girl who first said shes says she like me as some kind of joke but..
now shes saying it quete frequent and its making me confused

EDIT: Pinaplle u USELESS F##Ktard :P

Thank you <3 I just need to be honest to him about everything what's in my mind.. cause he really is a good guy, but I only want to be friends.. good friends..

[CommanderCody88]

Originally Posted by NinRose

He is 23 and I am 15 okay.
And the fact is, I have now a potential boyfriend and I really want to be friends with Mo.. and so is his thought about it, but our friendship can't work if we don't solve it all ..?
and there is another thing..
his viancé never makes trouble when he kisses someone else.. and if we kiss she wanted to kill me.. but Syl (great friend of my) kissed with him to and she didn't got any trouble.. (but that was a time ago, and to, he was engaged then..)

ehm..oke..that is like a major age difference...its uncommon..even in our country lol..but that aside...he is friggn getting married!...and he is muslim I presume? dont they feel really strong about that sort of stuff?

and u r in a really problematic position O.o..this is getting harder by the minute...cos u have mo..ur potential boyfriend and the fiancé...all mo's fault..he shouldnt be fooling around with other women when hes engaged..is that the kind of boyfriend u want?..damn I dont know what to say...

edit: yea what chrisuu sais

and! where is ayane when u need him T_T...he was very good at this sort of relation stuff :P and now I am officially going to bed!..